With the whole Idea of mentalities between The girls and the guys I wanted to open the door for comments on all ends. So Here are some interesting Pictures, and “TRUE” “FACTS” on men and women. Wink wink..  ( CLICK IMAGES TO MAKE LARGER)

I love this one!!!!

He is getting yelled at because the communication line was not so strong. Now he is learning how to communicate her way. Hopefully he learns for next time. . .(poor guy) or ( lucky man shes sticking around) ??????

Men may never truly figure out women. What I mean by this is long term relationship status. Men may figure out how to approach them, We may figure out things they like, We may figure out how to touch them inside. When it comes down to it, The mentality of women and men are both so different! There are only three things that can hold women and men together~ Communication, Honesty, and Trust~ With those three working together no matter how different we are anything can be worked out.  Just don’t forget to add a little time and patience.

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Remember:  HONEST COMMUNICATION = TRUST

This interview was nuts. I mean anything that can go wrong did, dropped phone calls, no line in…ECT  Here is a short video during part of the show and then a recap after words..

Getting ready for the storm ahead, oh boy!

All hell was breaking loose....

even though it went down hill, he and I were both happy men!

PART ONE

PART TWO

Time has a funny way of working things out. Over Five years ago one simple idea was implanted in my mind… Today its all coming together. Stay positive in life and follow your passions and you will succeed no matter what!

Flirting for Fun

On the road to love, Scott Gralnick is the guy driving the crappy car. But that hasn’t slowed his crusade to get us back to finding that someone special the old-fashioned way — you know, without using the Internet.

Scott Gralnick’s first rule for getting a girl is to conveniently forget to mention he’s written a book called How to Get a Girl in a ’95 Corolla.

The rest of us don’t have to worry about that. Unfortunately, few of us are as smooth as Beachwood’s 24-year-old “bachelor by choice.” Gralnick strolls into Caribou Coffee all wavy hair and two-day beard. Despite it being after 2 p.m. on a Sunday afternoon, he sincerely wishes me a good morning and asks how my Saturday night was. His, of course, was crazy.

He pulls out his camera and is disappointed. He’s already downloaded the pictures from last night. He doesn’t even want to tell me about it. He says I wouldn’t believe it.

But Gralnick has not hauled himself here to talk about his late-night exploits. He has real concerns. Mainly, that no one talks to one another anymore. His sister has even signed up with an online dating service. He’s disgusted.

“So many people rely on technology,” he says. “They don’t know how to meet people anymore. They want to text. They want to send Facebook messages. Technology has gone too far.”

Now, he’s on a mission to spread his alternative to online dating: talking to people in real life — like face-to-face — without e-mailing first. Gralnick says he knows that anyone over the age of 30 will laugh at his advice because it sounds so basic. Then again, if no one over the age of 30 used online dating, it wouldn’t be the industry it is today. Yes, all of us could use a refresher.

“Meeting [people] is not tough,” he says. “It’s about simple interactions, things that everyone can do: smile, make eye contact, say ‘hello,’ be kind, be sincere, be honest. But if it’s so easy, I guess more people would do it.”

And that’s why his yet-to-be-published book doesn’t belong in the self-help aisle. That’s too tame. No, this is really a full-throttle kick in the ass. Gralnick doesn’t come out and say it, but his argument goes like this: If a guy from Beachwood driving a rusted car made before Monica Lewinsky was an intern at the White House can meet women, what the hell is wrong with you?

So, I ask him to show me first-hand how it’s done. He approaches a blond woman pondering her choice of drinks. After a few minutes of talking, he walks away.

“Pink is her favorite color,” he reports. “I saw she had on a pink shirt, pink socks and a pink bracelet. I complimented her bracelet, and then we got to talking. She’s here to study.”

“But you didn’t get her phone number,” I protest.

“She’ll remember me,” he says.

“Shouldn’t we be at a bar?” I ask.

“Absolutely not,” he says. “Women know they’re going to get hit on at a bar. Who knows how many drinks she’s had? Who knows how many you’ve had? It’s just a lot more work.”

Yes, Gralnick understands that fear pushes people behind computer screens and rejection is harder to take when it’s face to face. But this isn’t asking that middle school crush to go with you; this is adulthood, damn it. Rejection is part of life.

Just like his love life, Gralnick hasn’t yet accepted an overture from a publisher that he says is interested in the book. He doesn’t love the idea of commitment. He has a wandering eye. He’s hoping to land a deal that’s a little more lucrative. He dreams of a movie someday.

Ironically, he’s been keeping people apprised of the book’s progress via a Facebook page, facebook.com/95corolla.

In the meantime, he’s already thinking about hitting the road next summer and taking his message on a cross-country trip.

“It’s trial and error,” he says of making his approach work for you. “Well, a lot of error. You have to fail and be willing to make a fool of yourself. But get used to being yourself. Never lie. And …”

“And?”

“She just looked at me,” Gralnick says. “The girl in pink. She pointed to me when she left with her friend. … She’ll remember me next time.”

Hey everyone, just wanted to give you a quick little video for whats coming…

How would you like to see a movie based off the book, and know you helped make it happened!

Thank you

Hey everyone, Its been a few months since I last posted on here. First I would like to say Happy New Years to all and may you have many more!  Soon you will see more updates on ideas on dating, meeting women or men, fun dates, when more media is coming out, the release for the book, and much more.  Things are getting exciting, I look forward to sharing with you the excitement.

Also if you have any question or ideas feel free to share.

Thanks so much everyone……

As of Wednesday October 28th 2009 “How To Get A Girl In A ‘95 Corolla…An Alternative To Online Dating” is looking to hit the market mid DEC of 09.

While the book is in its final stages, I started planning The “Cross America Media Tour”.  A trip consisting of 32 states.  Right now my main goal is narrowing down the Colleges I will be visiting based of Male to women Ratio and flow of driving, as well as total number of students. 

When I first wrote this book back between OCT to DEC of 08, I thought to myself, in Three months no time Once the book is done Ill get a publisher, have a best seller and be living on the beach in Florida . Man was I living in a dream! About one year to when this all began I am now making some solid headway.

I am looking forward to where this is all going.  If you think you have some good ideas on the planning side of a Cross America Tour, Or have some Inside info on certain College campuses Please feeel free to post a comment below so I see. You can also contact me Through Facebook, Or email me.  

   Stay tuned all,

   Sincerely,

          Scott Gralnick

As I drank my morning/afternoon coffee preparing myself for the day, The phone rang next to me.  I leaned over to reach for it and saw a number which I have not seen in my phone before.  A gentleman on the other end asked ever so politly, “Is Scott Gralnick in?” Anytime someone ask for me and I answer I always answer in return, “Who may I ask is calling?” Little did I know it was Cleveland Magazine. I was taken back for a moment. Cleveland Magazine, What do they want? I know it could only have to do with the book.

Now I have a meeting with them this Sunday.