Scott David Gralnick,

Great book Scott!  I purchased a few copies and they have been sitting on my desk at home…as every other weekend I go home I say, “I’ll read it soon, damn it just read it!” while I pick up the tax book…  So this weekend I’m dead in the head with a sinus infection and have no capacity for international tax issues, I read the back cover of your book…then the Forward…an hour later I finished your book.  You know, I have not written in a while, so I have a lot to say…

First off, great book, concise and true.  You have guts, balls, ambition that most folks have lost today.  You express your opinion and understand people, yet at times pushy, you are a man for many.  You’ve traveled as I hope I can one day.  Thus experiences, stories, real life, knowledge, wisdom, and enlightenment build a person.  I can see you and hear you while I read your book; I smiled the whole time and laughed a bit.  I feel your passion and deep thought throughout the book.  There are so many points I want to add, haha!  So we know our story and I truly appreciated our time together. (of course looking forward to more)  I thank you for coming into my life when you did, for many reasons.

Here’s your short review:

Appearance A+, Structure A+, Substance A+, Overall A+

You did end sentences on a preposition, which idk my mom always says never to do. b/c I usually do (great minds think alike) but doesn’t mind me much Scott.  So I loved the cafe shop, bookstore, everything.  The beach one was funny…paradise Scott (“next walk over to the Tiki Bar”) haha.   Where’s the Gym location??? Ugh I got stories on that one…!!!!   The Quick Reviews were very nice and helpful.  The bar scene is so right-on. I liked the Right To Talk. I’m very proud, happy, and excited about this whole thing + your future.  Now let’s make the sequel book.  “College dating” or the “Era of the Creeper”  perhaps most of your book relies on mature, open-minded girls.  Agreed your book works.  I deem these girls now: w/o class, every guy is creeper, and anything you do may be considered creeping.   Well what happen to the decades when guys asked girls on dates and they had mutual respect and went (classy).  (I really feel I’m venting my small community of JCU’s issue and their age issue)  but its worthy to “get it out” lol

I’ve met older women out and they get it, ‘your book’ or those positive tactics work and I’ve been successful……just not in finding a girl yet, ugh what an issue right now.

Nevertheless, I plan to read down at the coffee shop in little Italy and find another bookstore. (I’ve run JCU dry lmao)  Remember build that bookshelf Scott.

Ok let me know about this business your starting…your “friend linkage” (nice term) will be an asset as you continue.  I’d like to say i’m on the cutting edge so Just Ask; I may have an answer.  You gotta check out QR-Codes…new marketing you should link w/ people make some $.

Watch who you play with, dirty money leaves stinky trails.

I’m here for you, over there.

Hope to hear back.

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Living in NYC for Four months now I have had enough time to talk to the locals about the dating Scene. Everyone I spoke with all agree on one thing. . . SEX SEX SEXSEX SEX SEX

Its everywhere. People have a hard time dating here. Its a fast pace city, with a fast pace mindset.

Drink it up guys, its time to get laid!!!

The first question I ask the locals always, “Where do you go to meet people?” Of course the number one answer is the bars. I figured they would say so. Its not that big of a shock. People love the bars to meet for dating. Well, more for the sex.

Whats going on here?

Why????? Come on, you know. . . . Peoples guards are down…. Maybe?  ~Drinking~

Drinking makes things ok.  You can walk up to anyone and say anything. Yeah, its great to have that courage. Why not gain that courage and know how to walk up to anyone anywhere from a book, and not the drinks. Things perhaps wont lead right to the sex, if you’re not meeting in a bar.

The problem, If we can call it that. I would think a lot of people don’t even see it as a problem but a blessing. Who doesn’t like getting laid? The issue at hand is the sincere long term dating scene in NYC. It seems its losing itself with the fast pace city.

Wow hunny look, sex used to be for making babys? I thought it was just for fun with random people.

I wonder what dating would be like for New Yorkers if they starting meeting strangers everyday in random places. Having the courage to walk up to anyone anywhere without the drinks in them. What if all Yorkers stopped going to bars for a few weeks. Would the dating scene become more sincere?

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Would madness brake out in the streets of NYC in a feverishly plague like way grabbing anyone to get there SEX needs in.

Grunt, moan, Sigh, Laugh, Ouch, ooOOHHH, YEAHH,

I guess will never find out. It’s ok though People will do what they must. New York is a fast pace city, with fast pace intentions. If you really wanna meet that person don’t go to bars to do it.

In time people will come aware of the real issue. It’s within themselves and not so much the city. People have to stop blaming a fast pace environment.  I agree SEX is everywhere here but its your choice to see what you want. Your choice what to watch, listen to, and whom to date.

To NYC I say, “You can do it! Sincerity within, lies in all who seek it.”

Come one, come all, NYC is the new TRUE SINCERE LOVERS MEETING PLACE. It all starts here~

Three Jams I was in. I was on the jim-bay. Who says Writers cant JAM???

This a good one

I love this second one..

A nice end to the others

Now this video was taken a week ago. We just got done doing a lesson from my book and decided to hit the drums.

With the whole Idea of mentalities between The girls and the guys I wanted to open the door for comments on all ends. So Here are some interesting Pictures, and “TRUE” “FACTS” on men and women. Wink wink..  ( CLICK IMAGES TO MAKE LARGER)

I love this one!!!!

He is getting yelled at because the communication line was not so strong. Now he is learning how to communicate her way. Hopefully he learns for next time. . .(poor guy) or ( lucky man shes sticking around) ??????

Men may never truly figure out women. What I mean by this is long term relationship status. Men may figure out how to approach them, We may figure out things they like, We may figure out how to touch them inside. When it comes down to it, The mentality of women and men are both so different! There are only three things that can hold women and men together~ Communication, Honesty, and Trust~ With those three working together no matter how different we are anything can be worked out.  Just don’t forget to add a little time and patience.

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Remember:  HONEST COMMUNICATION = TRUST

This interview was nuts. I mean anything that can go wrong did, dropped phone calls, no line in…ECT  Here is a short video during part of the show and then a recap after words..

Getting ready for the storm ahead, oh boy!

All hell was breaking loose....

even though it went down hill, he and I were both happy men!

PART ONE

PART TWO

Time has a funny way of working things out. Over Five years ago one simple idea was implanted in my mind… Today its all coming together. Stay positive in life and follow your passions and you will succeed no matter what!

Flirting for Fun

On the road to love, Scott Gralnick is the guy driving the crappy car. But that hasn’t slowed his crusade to get us back to finding that someone special the old-fashioned way — you know, without using the Internet.

Scott Gralnick’s first rule for getting a girl is to conveniently forget to mention he’s written a book called How to Get a Girl in a ’95 Corolla.

The rest of us don’t have to worry about that. Unfortunately, few of us are as smooth as Beachwood’s 24-year-old “bachelor by choice.” Gralnick strolls into Caribou Coffee all wavy hair and two-day beard. Despite it being after 2 p.m. on a Sunday afternoon, he sincerely wishes me a good morning and asks how my Saturday night was. His, of course, was crazy.

He pulls out his camera and is disappointed. He’s already downloaded the pictures from last night. He doesn’t even want to tell me about it. He says I wouldn’t believe it.

But Gralnick has not hauled himself here to talk about his late-night exploits. He has real concerns. Mainly, that no one talks to one another anymore. His sister has even signed up with an online dating service. He’s disgusted.

“So many people rely on technology,” he says. “They don’t know how to meet people anymore. They want to text. They want to send Facebook messages. Technology has gone too far.”

Now, he’s on a mission to spread his alternative to online dating: talking to people in real life — like face-to-face — without e-mailing first. Gralnick says he knows that anyone over the age of 30 will laugh at his advice because it sounds so basic. Then again, if no one over the age of 30 used online dating, it wouldn’t be the industry it is today. Yes, all of us could use a refresher.

“Meeting [people] is not tough,” he says. “It’s about simple interactions, things that everyone can do: smile, make eye contact, say ‘hello,’ be kind, be sincere, be honest. But if it’s so easy, I guess more people would do it.”

And that’s why his yet-to-be-published book doesn’t belong in the self-help aisle. That’s too tame. No, this is really a full-throttle kick in the ass. Gralnick doesn’t come out and say it, but his argument goes like this: If a guy from Beachwood driving a rusted car made before Monica Lewinsky was an intern at the White House can meet women, what the hell is wrong with you?

So, I ask him to show me first-hand how it’s done. He approaches a blond woman pondering her choice of drinks. After a few minutes of talking, he walks away.

“Pink is her favorite color,” he reports. “I saw she had on a pink shirt, pink socks and a pink bracelet. I complimented her bracelet, and then we got to talking. She’s here to study.”

“But you didn’t get her phone number,” I protest.

“She’ll remember me,” he says.

“Shouldn’t we be at a bar?” I ask.

“Absolutely not,” he says. “Women know they’re going to get hit on at a bar. Who knows how many drinks she’s had? Who knows how many you’ve had? It’s just a lot more work.”

Yes, Gralnick understands that fear pushes people behind computer screens and rejection is harder to take when it’s face to face. But this isn’t asking that middle school crush to go with you; this is adulthood, damn it. Rejection is part of life.

Just like his love life, Gralnick hasn’t yet accepted an overture from a publisher that he says is interested in the book. He doesn’t love the idea of commitment. He has a wandering eye. He’s hoping to land a deal that’s a little more lucrative. He dreams of a movie someday.

Ironically, he’s been keeping people apprised of the book’s progress via a Facebook page, facebook.com/95corolla.

In the meantime, he’s already thinking about hitting the road next summer and taking his message on a cross-country trip.

“It’s trial and error,” he says of making his approach work for you. “Well, a lot of error. You have to fail and be willing to make a fool of yourself. But get used to being yourself. Never lie. And …”

“And?”

“She just looked at me,” Gralnick says. “The girl in pink. She pointed to me when she left with her friend. … She’ll remember me next time.”

Hey everyone, just wanted to give you a quick little video for whats coming…